• MsPenguinette@lemmy.world
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    18 days ago

    I get being on a budget, but I think it’s kind of cruel to have kids in a home and then need jumpers with hot water bottles to be warm

      • BlameThePeacock@lemmy.ca
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        18 days ago

        Yea, slippers and a sweater (jumper) through the winter period and a thermostat at 18C seems like a perfectly reasonable way to save energy to me. That’s not an uncomfortable situation at all.

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        18 days ago

        No, but it’s not a comfortable indoor temperature. That was the temperature in my house growing up, because it was an old, poorly-insulated house, and we couldn’t afford to keep it any warmer.

        It was tolerable, but in the winter, my hands would get so cold they’d stiffen up. Can’t really wear gloves or mittens around the house and actually do anything, either.

    • mojofrododojo@lemmy.world
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      18 days ago

      cruel

      I think you need to recalibrate what cruelty means. plenty of kids out there without enough to eat, or even a steady place to stay, these kids are fine.

      • Victor@lemmy.world
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        18 days ago

        One can have levels of cruelty perhaps. It’s just a word that you can apply meaning to. Especially a subjective one like this, which, as you mentioned, needs calibrating. So highly subjective.

        inb4 down votes because people don’t like how language is a constantly moving and evolving thing.

        • mojofrododojo@lemmy.world
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          18 days ago

          I mean everyone is entitled to their opinions and a childhood of nothing but adverse cold would be miserable. I grew up in a highly varied series of environments ranging from trailer park poor to middle class, I’m not trying to shame anyone. But cruelty in this context to me would be keeping ONE kid cold, or denying someone dry clothing - abusive.

          good luck.

    • theneverfox@pawb.social
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      18 days ago

      Cruel would be not keeping them warm, or exposing them to danger

      Giving them warm clothes and hot water bottles is not any form of deprivation. It’s just a different way to provide for them, one that sounds super wholesome and cozy to me