is it because of the “pick me, choose me, love me” thing or does she actually behave like a pick me?

  • Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    19 minutes ago

    I’ve been binging Grey’s (currently on the Covid season) and wouldn’t consider Mer to be a “pick me girl”. Especially after Derek, she has focused on her career and family and only has occasional flings. Her self esteem doesn’t come from any sort of external validation.

    A quote from this season about Mer sums it up well: You’ve always been your own person. A force of nature. You’ve never needed anyone but you.