Like there is never comments that even attempts to be like: “Okay here’s what you can do to try to mend the relationship…”

I feel like there’s a conspiracy that the internet is trying to break up as many relationships (and by “relationship” I don’t just mean romance) as possible so people are more isolated and therefore those who rule the world can more easily solidify their control…

  • ryathal@sh.itjust.works
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    1 day ago

    There’s a few big things to keep in mind.

    1. The people coming to random strangers on the Internet for help are more likely at a last resort level in the first place. They want permission or validation to end things.
    2. You only get one side of a story, which oftentimes makes things seem worse than they are. Any advice based on that is going to be more extreme. It’s difficult to impossible to figure out additional context that could change the circumstances.
    3. Relationships are based on communication, it’s a bit of a red flag to be asking a lot of these questions to random strangers in the first place. The poster is also likely a toxic influence that the other person doesn’t need in their life.