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Buddhist, researcher, FOSS, Linux, selfhosting enthusiast, plantbased, anarchism and MLM interested.

Trying to be nice. I really dislike the Reddit style aggressive comments. If you are rude I will block and ban you.

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  • Many muslim families don’t allow dating, go straight to marriage. Being in the West doesn’t change one’s religion. That’s kind of a bozo comment. Assuming you can figure that out after a year, your question is because your feelings are hurt. I dated a Viet girl in high school that similarly didn’t want to tell her family since her father didn’t allow it. It felt like she didn’t care as I did. So I understand your feelings.

    Are you gonna marry her? Would you convert for her? Then things will change. If not this is how it is.















  • Maybe around college I realized my younger sibling wasn’t just mean in middle school but continued to today. From college to now I slowly have come to peace with I just don’t like them. They’re mean, easy to explode, and self centered. All family can be mean or sassy but I can make up with the rest. Never them, and always completely unreasonable.

    Most recent massive blow out is when I got mad at them for putting their stupid little dog right in my very young child’s face. They then exploded that I’m using my child to hurt them… huh? As they go off I’m physically shaking but just laughing in their face. Protecting my child is hurting them, lol.