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  • Obinice@lemmy.worldtoComic Strips@lemmy.worldEcho chambers
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    4 months ago

    Missing the decades in which they tried persuading, debating, discussing and educating up to this tipping point, this final straw, all to no avail.

    Are we supposed to just keep trying forever, pointlessly? Exhaustingly? Every day? For another 30 years?

    At some point for our own mental wellbeing it’s time to consider that some people will simply never change, are closed to any and all discussions, and it’s best for ourselves to stop trying over and over, and focus on our own mental health instead.

    I was idealistic once, and would have said there’s never a time to stop trying to fix other people, to help them see a different viewpoint, or mortality, etc, but some people just can’t be fixed. All you’re really doing by continuing to try is breaking yourself in the process. Be kind to yourself <3








  • “One small step for a man”

    I know, I know, it’s not as poetic sounding and not how history most often quotes it, but that’s what he actually said, the “a” just gets a bit lost in his way of speaking and the less than perfect radio downlink.

    Once you know the actual quote and think about it, it makes way more sense too haha :-D





  • Obinice@lemmy.worldtoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    4 months ago

    In the quote he’s not saying other jobs don’t suck out your soul, just that it’s different.

    In a vacuum, not knowing this guy or the rest of his statement, I don’t see anything obviously wrong with that he’s saying.

    They take a mental toll on you in different ways, but they all take a mental toll, is what he seems to be saying, and I find that reasonable.

    There are people who think trying to make a career as an entertainer (like in streaming) doesn’t take any toll on you at all, and that’s a misunderstanding we should dispell.


  • Huh, I’ve probably seen it, but I can’t remember ever seeing a bloke pushing a pram here in the UK.

    I see loads of women doing so of course, and I must have seen a man doing so at some point, but not often enough to have any recollection of it ever happening. Strange!

    I’m sure I’ll take notice the next time I spot it though.