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  • cRazi_man@lemm.eetoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldIt happens...
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    10 days ago

    You know you shouldn’t joke about these things. These are very serious matters. You’re very lucky and privileged, but some people really struggle. We’ve tried our best to provide you with everything and give you a comfortable life, but don’t forget how hard others have it. You don’t appreciate all this or appreciate us. We still need to talk about your grades by the way.

















  • Your parenting mojo

    But anything that helps you understand your brain and personal issues better will also help with parenting. So also try:

    The Happiness Lab

    Hidden Brain

    School of Life (YouTube channel)

    People online tend to recommend therapy to everyone,and I’m sure therapy is great if you can access it. But you can read, listen, watch, learn and improve through self reflection…and heal wounds you never knew about.

    The thing I’m really missing is finding a good dad group or parent group to join. I would love some peer support.


  • I’m good with my parents. They have their normal human flaws, which I accept happily.

    Are you a parent yourself? It’s really difficult. You can’t help but bring a lot of baggage. There’s a podcast I lesten to, to improve parenting that runs a workshop called “taming your triggers”. Having children exposes a lot of wounds and personal baggage. It’s really difficult to recognise and address those on yourself as a parent. Your description of expectations from a parent are so idealised, I would argue that there are very few individuals in the world who are actually successful in being that good and selfless.

    This is interesting if you’ve got an hour to watch a philosophy video(link goes directly to 53min if you just want to watch a few minutes).