It’s not going to be a secret. It either wont happen or it will happen with his consent. It requires a ton of confidential info and verifications. Also, while it varies from person to person, you could be looking at over $100k. We’re talking loans that take 20-40 years to pay off. Just wanted to make sure you’re aware of how massive these loans tend to be.
All that said, yes, if you show up to financer with $100k they’re gonna wanna take it, but they’re also gonna wanna make sure it’s real.
oh right missed that part. well, still relevant for other readers
Make sure your last permanent address is where you wanna be voting. Absentee ballots will all be for whichever district you lived in last.
This is a pretty important step!
relevant username
yeah i aint touching this question, eating disorders are a bitch and this is the kind of preoccupation that we gotta let go of
there’s no republicans on lemmy lol
What do you think flirting is, OP?
OP be like “Okay and how big (would you say) is that job applications part?”
Like I dunno dude, how are we supposed to quantify that shit? It’s just part of the dance
Better question we could give OP is “What difference would the answer make?” like is OP trying to figure out whether he can skip it or how much time to invest in practicing it or what lol. this is such a ridiculous thread
based we did it fascism is defeated
I think there’s some Indian communities on Lemmy but not big one. haven’t seen any Pakistani ones
can we not body shame? there’s probably a lot of people around here who have similar body types but don’t deserve ridicule for it
ooh i see so it doesnt fall under formal logic. interesting! honestly that makes me feel even more strongly against it lol. but still more than anything it comes down to rationalizing an irrational process – after all even speaking the language of faulty logic is a way of turning things into logic!
yea i didnt specify it in my own answer but i think egocentric bias is a good fit. however even that expression does not inherently convey the hostility that OP is experiencing!
It’s just a broad umbrella concept in formal logic. what makes you think this interaction is best described by logic and not psychological or social dynamics? it’s not like the fuckin dude is publishing a research paper. op has someone busting their aglets and wants to find words to describe the experience. what makes you think their chief complaint is the same concept that can describe the statement “all cats are black”
Why do we need to nounify it? It doesn’t need to be a special concept. Find the words for what they’re doing and describe it.
It sounds like they’re invalidating your experiences and struggling to recognize perspectives outside their own.
I guess if you really want to nominalize it, call it “hand-waving”. oh that doesn’t count. just anything but “anecdotal evidence” because I beg you please do not try to communicate your own subjective emotional experiences by using haughty, dry logic 101 vocabulary.
why? because it’s the fastest way to get lost in the bullshit of “is it or isnt it?!” and completely lose the conversation from focusing on how this person is treating you.
Using anecdotal evidence is not inherently abusive… this shitty behavior is
it’s a fucking stupid answer. that’s not what anecdotal evidence means at all
it’s gaslighting. yep Definitely gaslighting. I totally know what gaslighting means and everything I don’t like is gaslighting
or maybe it’s woke. tell them to stop gaslighting you with their woke comments
/bj
대박! 그렇게 넓은 마음이 있네요. 저도 감사드리고 싶어요. 우리 문제 다 돈으로 풀 수 있다면…
Maybe if you want it to be a surprise you could talk to a family member of his? Hm but no one should give you personal information on the promise of money… Maybe the other commenter has the right idea: approaching the loan servicer as a buyer of the loan. That happens once in a while: your loan is owned by one company, then suddenly another company owns it because they’re trading stuff. Once you buy the loan you could just forgive the balance.