And they are wrong for that as well. That sounds like someone I wouldn’t want to be friends with or date bc they reduced someone down to their body parts and not who they are as a person.

Abs do not define someone, abs don’t make someone a better person or have a better personality.

And that makes them bigots as well. This is not a this or that. If someone says attracted to men but no short people, they are also a cunt of a person and probably not someone you want to date.

If I am attracted to you, then it does not matter height, weight, etc…

That’s not how sexuality works.

99% of all trans women will absolutely tell you up front that they are trans bc they aren’t trying to get unalived by someone in a trans panic. Which btw is still a legal defense in over half the states of this country

Serious question - you said “But that doesn’t mean I can be attracted to someone I know is trans”

Why is this? Based on what you said wrote here you seemed to be able to be attracted to them before you know they are trans but the moment you find out that they are trans, you no longer are attracted to them.

If you reduce someone down to their features and say I can’t date you bc you have XYZ features, but you are perfect in every other way and just what I am looking for in a woman, but I can’t date you bc of that. How is reducing someone to something that is out of their control not phobic?

My other question is this - post op transwoman, would you still be attracted to her if you knew she had bottom surgery and no longer had a penis?

Bc OP reduced someone down to their anatomy. Literally perfect woman and exactly their type is right in front of them. Cute face, slim waist with a big behind… but the only reason you don’t want to date them is bc of their anatomy? That’s the part where it moves across the line.

You have reduced this person down to what’s in their pants and not who they are, their personality, their hobbies, etc… you have reduced them to a feature of their body.

Imagine if someone said I don’t want to date someone with a cleft lip bc if we have kids that could be passed down through genetics.

It’s the same thing here.

Using wefwef at the moment (Apollo inspired) you can use it on android desktop and iPhone as it is a webapp and they show up as a link for me that I can then click and doesn’t embed it or inline it.