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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • Depends on the cat(s) really.

    My old kitty (RIP) was a third one in a house with two nominally feral adoptees and they did not welcome her.

    When I moved and she was the sole cat she displayed stress and shredded two sofas and more.

    Now we have two unrelated cats adopted together that don’t totally adore one another but are civil and they have NEVER scratched a single non-kitty item.

    While they tend to keep to themselves I DO think they stimulate each other with occasional (thankfully gentle) paw bats and chases or just do solitary cat things. Like roommates.

    So…depends - if you’re not home a lot kitty will need stimulation. Good luck!



















  • You’re trying which takes a lot of courage - that’s the right attitude for sure. I’d suggest joining activities not just gathering places in subjects you’re passionate about or interested in. By that I mean like games, sports, arts etc - a class or club means you share similar interests (something to break the ice) and social context to interact. It’s more likely you’ll click with others that share your interest.

    So go to tour your local town in an organized group. Take a painting or pottery class. Join a recreational sport club.

    Good luck!