I speak four languages at native level, because I can change languages mid sentence and you wouldn’t know which one is my actual origin language (hint: it’s two).

I’m more than fluent. Fluent just means you can speak in complete coherent sentences without hesitation. You can do this but still have a strong accent - like many of the Indian tech wizards, for instance.

Native, to me, means that it’s practically indistinguishable from a person that grew up in that country, and you can’t tell that I didn’t actually grow up in that country.

Yeah, so if I don’t see it coming, I’m not scared.

Also romanticised in the famous novel The Neverending Story.

What a stupid question. Just go visit it??

That sounds awfully complicated for home use.

Zero trust, but you have to use Amazon AWS, Cloudflare, and make your own Telegram bot? And have the domain itself managed by Cloudflare.

Sounds like a lot of trust right there… Would love to be proven wrong.

You should worry about your writing skills. Try some punctuation, for starters.

Yes, it’s entirely possible to be married and still feel alone.

However, ranting about democrats and foreigners tells me this is not about being married or not. The guy has problems and worries that have nothing to do with marriage.

Still, I can somewhat relate. Living in another country since many years (because reasons), and I don’t feel at home. Happily married, with kids, all good. But I’m not home, y’know?

People here don’t need me; they all hang out with their childhood friends they’ve known forever. I’m the new guy, even after all these years. That makes me feel lonely. And it has nothing to do with being married.

That is a very different picture, isn’t it!

Could you please plot this as a 100% area chart instead?

How is that even legal. Smh.

Mattermost runs as a Docker container and is excellent. You can create channels and groups which is incredibly useful.

Thank you! I feel I am close to success but still not there yet. This AIO includes a reverse proxy, but I already have one (NPM).

I’ve seen and applied the docs for how to route with my own reverse proxy, and I come to the point where it’s all installed and started.

But then - that button “open your Nextcloud↗️” does not work :'( and I think it’s because it still requires something from its own proxy? The docs aren’t clear on this.

The logs say “failed to fetch discovery endpoint from https://cloud.mydomain.here”

I want to use a flavor of AIO that is just Nextcloud and does not expect any specific certs and proxy and stuff. Just take care of the inside stuff, and let me do the outside stuff.

And amazing is is. It has almost completely replaced my use of Google Photos 👍

If only I could manage to get Nextcloud running on my Docker server.

I have tried many times but always fail. It’s infuriating because I am running 20+ other things without problems. Why is NC so hard??

Pfft! 21 weeks per meat! 🍖

It belongs in a museum!

Because it’s not our fucking choice, you imbecile. Corporate does as corporate wants. I can’t install your precious penguin on my work machine, okay??!

Objection. I ran Ubuntu for 6 years but returned to Windows because too many things were just a little bit too odd, too off, too hands-on-config-files.

To be fair, the newer versions of Windows suck hard. 10 was really bad, 11 is horrific. I dream of going to Debian some day.

Not everything: if I buy your domain after it expires, I certainly cannot read your email!