I tried tailscale first but to be honest wasn’t a fan. I moved to Twingate and found it much simpler to set up

Personally I use twingate, free for 5 users and relatively straightforward to set up.

I don’t use reaction glasses simply because they don’t work in cars due to the UV filtering in modern glass, so I have prescription sunglasses and often forget the clear ones so if I’m out and about they’re staying on otherwise I can’t see or read.