I don’t have a problem. I can quit any time I like. I only swipe recreationally. Every five minutes. Maybe I’m in denial. First stage, right?
update: Auto-correct and I are in a toxic relationship. Swiping just enables it. Tried quitting once. Worst 5 minutes of my life.
update: There’s this 12-step program… Step one was turning off predictive text. Didn’t make it to step two.
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TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zipto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Which came first: the kidney bean or the kidney body part?English2·3 days agoWow! By several orders of magnitude too. I knew plants came later, but this is a pretty extreme example.
TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zipto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Which came first: the kidney bean or the kidney body part?English7·3 days agoThat’s a pretty solid answer from one perspective. However that still leaves me wondering what the answer would be from an evolutionary perspective. Did early sea creatures already have kidneys?
TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zipto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What is a federated alternative to Wikipedia?English4·9 days agoPeople tend to disagree about everything, even the shape of the earth and the effectiveness of vaccines, as mad as that may sound. As a result, a federated encyclopedia would probably diverge and fork numerous times, resulting in countless competing versions. How would you merge them back together?
TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zipto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Will Lemmy instances be forced to verify users' ~~ages~~ identities?English1·10 days agoOh trust me, stuff you didn’t even imagine could exist can be found in that wretched hive of depravity and fornication. If you never click any of that, the algorithm won’t know how dirty your mind is. On the other hand, you could also do the exact opposite and click on everything horny. That will turn your whole feed into a wicked orgy. Let’s just say that it’s a surprisingly versatile site.
TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zipto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Will Lemmy instances be forced to verify users' ~~ages~~ identities?English7·11 days agoWe are witnessing the next step along the way to a completely fragmented web. Sort of like the DataKrash, but in slow motion. This time, it’s driven by legislation instead of a single netrunner.
TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zipto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Will Lemmy instances be forced to verify users' ~~ages~~ identities?English1·11 days agoThat’s partially true. If you use the official mastodon app, you get the following feeds; following, local, lists and followed hashtags. If you use the web UI, you can also see the federated feed. A different client app, like Ice Cubes, gives you a trending feed as well.
TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zipto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Will Lemmy instances be forced to verify users' ~~ages~~ identities?English5·11 days agoNah. Mastodon can handle that.
TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zipto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Will Lemmy instances be forced to verify users' ~~ages~~ identities?English101·11 days agoSo, if you can’t even use Xitter for porn is there anything left? What even is the propose of that site any more?
TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zipto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Will Lemmy instances be forced to verify users' ~~ages~~ identities?English21·11 days agoI’ve only heard about UK, Australia and certain states in America. If you live in Kazakhstan next to Borat, you should be fine.
As always, EU is complicated, so we’ll have to wait and see how that works out.
TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zipto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Will Lemmy instances be forced to verify users' ~~ages~~ identities?English60·11 days agoCompliance depends on the instance. Pick an instance where the admin doesn’t give a dingo’s kidney, or an instance located in a country where the local law doesn’t require age verification.
TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zipto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•If you argue for a cause like affordable housing for everyone, is it necessarily hypocritical if you also own investment properties?English61·11 days agoIt’s a bit more complicated than that though. Most people can’t buy a property, because they don’t have enough money. In order to go around that problem, they either borrow money or rent the property. Either way, some extra money always goes somewhere.
Some of it is justified, because you need to go around the problem not having enough money to buy a house. However, there are many cases where that extra expense is absolutely wild and rooted in greed.
Actually, if you happen to own the property, some extra money will go to periodic maintenance and miscellaneous expenses you never even think of if you just rent the place. You just don’t pay for those things every month a little bit at a time. Instead, you pay a large bill once a year or an enormous bill every 10 years.
TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zipto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•what does it mean being nice to your coworkers to you?English2·14 days agoOn top of that, knowing a bit about your colleagues makes it more comfortable to work with them. It will be easier to approach them and ask for help or advice when you need it.
Obviously, everyone isn’t quite that social, so you need to respect the boundaries — your own and theirs. If you can come to an understanding about what can be shared, how much, and when, then you start to see the benefits. The atmosphere becomes more chill, and you’ll have more energy to get stuff done.
Alternatively, you may find out that you don’t want to be around some people, and that’s valuable information too. Some people are toxic, and getting to know them a little bit will help you make more informed decisions in the future. If you never chat with anyone, those toxic people might end up hurting you later.
TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zipto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Why do narcissists have such fragile egos?English1·17 days agoJust a random coworker, nothing more important than that. We’re not even on any projects together, and I think I would rather keep it that way.
Having thought about this case a bit more, the risks are definitely uncomfortably high. Avoiding him seems like the best option. Besides, he rambles on an on about some drama that isn’t really helpful in my job anyway. Not really the kind of person I need around me.
TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zipto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Why do narcissists have such fragile egos?English11·17 days agoThere’s this guy who talks way too much about himself and how he is right about something and how other people don’t get it and so on. I was just wondering if I should start avoiding him like the plague.
TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zipto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Why don't they have simpler names for brain disorders, where perhaps even the person suffering the disorder might be able to remember the term themself?English2·17 days agoI know they definitely are into rubber and strapping though.
TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zipto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Why don't they have simpler names for brain disorders, where perhaps even the person suffering the disorder might be able to remember the term themself?English1·18 days agoYeah, it gets ridiculous at times. If you’re in a niche community, you can expect to see some “professional jargon”, but in general communities like asklemmy and nostupidquestions using those types of niche acronyms just don’t make much sense.
If you’re in a car specific community, you can throw your acronyms around, but outside it you shouldn’t expect people to know what a BSM is. Be considerate and call it a blind spot monitor instead.
TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zipto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Why do narcissists have such fragile egos?English23·18 days agoThanks for the advice. I better be cautious with this one.
TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zipto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Why do narcissists have such fragile egos?English21·18 days agoHmm… That is a good point. Seems like a risky experiment.
The idea with this test setup is based on the idea that the result could potentially provide new information instead of just confirming what I already believe to be true. An inferior experiment would just involve mild flattery, but that can only result in confirmation bias instead of rejecting a hypothesis. Not my favorite type of experiment.
I guess a more passive observational approach is the way to go in this case.
Practice juggling. Buy 3 juggling balls (you know those bean bag types that don’t roll away), and keep them with you. Don’t use tennis balls, because they have a tendency to bounce and roll. When you have some downtime, start practicing. Watch a few video tutorials to get the hang of it.
If you can have a backpack with you, consider bringing a tablet with you. If you have one with a pen, you can draw. Watch a few more tutorials, and learn to draw something you like. Landscapes, portraits, fantasy dragons, pokemons whatever.
Tablets are also fine for reading ebooks. Check what your local library has to offer. Maybe you can borrow library books and read them on your tablet.